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Alergie Sociala

         Informatii :  Inteligenta sociala de Daniel goleman si propria experienta 

      Orcine si-ar dori o relatie perfecta de iubire si afectiune , adevarat , dar se ajunge la unele puncte critice in care parca orce ar face partenerul te deranjeaza indiferent ca e vorba de mancare , de activitatile voastre sau de orice .
      
      Se ajunge la reprosuri grele " nu ma mai iubesti " " faci orce ca sa ma enervezi , nu? " "nu ai face nimic pentru mine " " te gandesti la alta cand te culci cu mine " " nu mai e ca la inceput... " si asa mai departe , ideea e ca nu se ajunge nicaieri asa .

     Daca se ajunge la variantele de mai sus fara sa fie o perioada lunga de relatie si respect reciproc nu sunteti facuti sa fiti impreuna sau sunteti doi prosti care nu puteti gasi alta/u .

     Stim cum e la inceputul unei relatie ? De multe ori incerci sa pari " TARE " , sa-i castigi interesul si atentia , consumi foarte mult timp pentru asta , tu esti Fat Frumos si trebuie sa-ti pastrezi reputatia , dar asta in timp poate fii o prostie pe care sa o primesti inapoi de 10ori ...auch

     De ce se ajunge la Alergie sociala ?  Dependenta unui partener fata de celalt , lipsa de ocupatie si fantezia  primara imposibila de atins "partenerul perfect " .
     
    Caracterul iritabil al alergiei sociale creste pe masura ce scade puterea idealizarii romantice.

    In capul liste cand vine vorba de dragoste este : atasamentul , grija si sexul , indiferent de ordine >:)

   va continua...



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